The recent wave of repealing DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) programs across the United States has left me guessing what this means for my diverse family. As a white mother to a Black daughter, a Jewish wife to an Indian husband, and raising a HinJew, biracial son, it’s hard not to feel like we’re living at the intersection of these cultural and societal shifts. Now, with DEI itself under threat, I’m wondering how we’ll navigate a society that seems to be stepping back from progress. Will it become harder to raise our kids in a world that celebrates their differences? Or is this just another challenge we’ll face as we fight to make space for our family’s unique identity?

How to navigate this post-DEI world

1. Emphasize cultural pride: I will teach my kids to love and appreciate all parts of their heritage. We will continue to celebrate holidays, traditions, and cultural practices from both sides of the family, helping them feel proud of their unique backgrounds.
2. Create open conversations: I will encourage honest discussions about race, culture, and identity. I will let my children ask questions and express their feelings about the world they’re growing up in and will remain open to their experiences and help them process any confusion or concerns.
3. Be their advocate: I will teach my children how to stand up for themselves and others when it comes to inclusivity and fairness. I will help them understand that their identities matter and should be respected by others.
4. Build a diverse support system: I will surround my kids with a supportive network of people who share similar experiences. I will look for communities, friends, and mentors who can offer additional cultural perspectives and provide a safe space for my children.
5. Teach resilience: I will help my children develop the emotional resilience needed to navigate challenges. While the world may not always be as inclusive as it should be, I will equip them with the tools to handle adversity with confidence, pride, and strength.

In the end, my real fear isn’t so much about the actual repeal of DEI programs, but more about what it says about the state of progress and inclusion in this country. It’s like we’re backpedaling while trying to convince ourselves we’re walking in the right direction. But instead of getting discouraged, I’ll keep focusing on raising my kids with a solid foundation of empathy, love, and a healthy dose of “Yeah, that’s not okay” for when the world misses the mark. Because, let’s be honest, no one was ever going to hand them inclusion on a silver platter. I’ll teach them to serve it themselves. This way, I believe my children will grow into compassionate AF individuals who will help rebuild the bridges that some seem intent on dismantling.

My hope is that this blog may be helpful, or dare I say inspirational to someone out there. Share your stories, and let’s stay hopeful, stay united, and keep pushing for progress; our diverse families are too important to be ignored!